Some Ground Rules for Threesome

Condom is a must. No matter if you are in your safe period or not, condom protects you from STDs. You can never know who he/she slept with before you. It can never be too cautious when it comes to health. You should also be careful with some men. They have no responsibility and they don’t care about you. They will seduce you and try to have threesome with you without condom. You must be alert. Condom is non-negotiable, no matter what they do and what they say. There are so many negative examples about this. So many people got AIDS, herpes and other diseases because of unprotected sex. I hope you are not one of them. What is more, the situation of different individual varies. I think most women have some different gynecopathy in different levels. If there is something particular that you are not allowed to do, do bring it up to the table before it happens. I am sure everyone can understand. Also, you can also bring some toys or lubricants if you are the host. It can improve the quality of the experience. Feel free to do that if everyone doesn’t have any problem. There should be balance between sexual relationship and serious relationship. This is a mistake often get confused by many swinger couples. They can’t set clear boundaries between sexual partners and relationship partners, especially when a person is invited for threesomes with a couple for more than one time. It can be hard to keep emotions away when you get used to the existence of somebody. It is surely understandable. For me, if I share a bed with a person for more than one time, I could get emotionally attached to him. Everyone is the same I believe. That is why I suggest that each time you have a tinder threesome, try to find different strangers. Do not regularly invite one same person. It can be dangerous for your relationship. When it really happens, you can’t even blame your partner for being disloyalty. You also have some responsibility on this. On the other hand, try to keep your emotions away from the third person. He/she is only temporary. Think of him/her as an object that is used to spice up your relationship. This is just for example. They are definitely persons with emotions. My point is do not get emotionally attached. Threesome dating can possibly change your relationship status. Having a threesome is a very brave move for a couple. It is about to break the balance between you. Inviting another person into your intimate relationship could be a start to a whole new dynamic. Some relationships turn to open ones after they had a threesome. Some couples may feel closer to each other after it. It depends on individuals. Prepare for the change.